Shitty Day, Venting!

How did you they find out that you did this favor in the first place? The high road would be for your boyfriend to defend you to his daughters and inform them that he asked you to do this. If he is going to allow his daughters to trash you in such a public and awful way, I would consider where his true loyalties lie.

Allanericangirl,

Wow can't believe that your boyfriend wouldn't have backed you up, especially since he asked you to do it. I agree with CK, I would also consider where his true loyalties lie.

I wish you the best and hope things calm down and work out for you.
Kat

Allanericangirl,

I would ask him to explain to you why he threw you under the bus, drove over you, and then parked the bus on you? What a mean thing for him to do. WHERE IS HIS LOYALITY TO YOU? He should have NEVER told anyone one that he had you make that call for him.

No daughter's, no matter their age, wants to share their father with another woman unless it is their mother so therefore you are viewed as a homewrecker whether their parent's were divorced before or after you came into their father's life. You are now known as the ********* (whatever word you put there) woman who has taken away from their mother's income. They want to be loyal to their mother, and any bad thing they may have heard from their mother about you or thought themself, is now coming true in their eyes, it is now a reality and not a feeling. They may even think that it was your idea in the first place not their father's.

My first question to him, "What did you say to your ex-wife and children?"
I would make him answer that question. Then I would ask "How are you going to clean this mess up? Why did you tell them I did the calling?

But my questions is to you is: Why didn't he do the calling himself? He used you. He has turned you into the bad fall girl so you are taking the heat that he did not want to take on himself. In other words HE USED YOU, OTHERWISE HE WOULD BE DEFENDING YOU!

My advice to you is, you cannot control how they feel or think about you, nor what they write about you, so I would not go to their facebook and read what they say. It is only going to hurt you and bring you down. You are justified for your feelings but maybe it would be best to try to move on by ignoring them. They are wanting to get to you, to hurt you, because they feel you are hurting their mother. They are defending her the only way they can think of, even though it is childish. Don't give them the pleasure of knowing that they are affecting or hurting you in any way, but make your boyfriend explain why he handled the situation like he did. HE OWES YOU THAT MUCH!

I totally agree with Allanericangirl and the others in this. I only have one comment for the boyfriend. Take rsponcibility for your actions and step up to the plate. It is obvious your feeling to him and it is even more appreaent the betrayel